DISCUSSION ETIQUETTE

1. Participate fully.
2. Take turns speaking – one person speaks at a time.
3. Let others know that you have not finished speaking by using phrases such as:  I have one more thing to add, furthermore, in addition, etc…
4. Wait your turn – don’t interrupt.
5. Use supportive gestures & body language:

- Maintain eye contact with the speaker
- Nod to show you are listening.
- Use encouraging facial expressions.
- Don’t use inappropriate gestures.

6. Use respectful phrases when disagreeing with another speaker.
7. Listen carefully & attentively to other speakers.
8. Encourage and support those around you.
9. Avoid sarcasm & put-downs.
10. Stay on topic.
11. Ask questions when you don’t understand.
12. Don’t monopolize the conversation.

SPEAKING OUT

Phrases for respectful disagreement include:
I disagree with …. because…                           I can’t agree with… because...
On the other hand…                                         I doubt that because…

Examples of inappropriate disagreement include:

You’re wrong.                                      No way.                       Come on!                    
What!                                                   That’s crazy / stupid / ridiculous.                      
Are you kidding?                                  I hate that.                   
He / she doesn’t know what their talking about.

Phrases for politely expressing an opinion include:

In my opinion…                                    I believe…
I think…                                               Personally, I feel…
Not everyone will agree with me, but…

Phrases for politely making suggestions include:

Why don’t you …                                How about…
One way would be…                           Maybe we could…
I suggest we…